Herewith my final farewell
I would like to use this opportunity to thank you all – both
on JWD and JWR for eight great years and the many virtual friendships being
here resulted in. Thank you Simon for letting me be a member on JWD all these
years – you are doing a good work and have many great people now joining your
forum from JWR.
Don’t pin me down on every word, but I am going to try to
explain what lead to the demise and fall of JWR. As admin/mods we have the
constant dealing with SPAM, Trolling, Creationist/Preaching, deciding on how
far you let things go and when to reign in, having to ban persons, criticism on
being too strict or too tolerant, name calling (Elders, GB), banned persons
coming back over and over again with new sock-puppet accounts and more. It all
comes with the turf, but at times it gets to you...
Recently we had weeks of sock-puppet reappearance, name
calling, innuendos and under the belt criticism on how we were handling matters
– and I think that is kind of were the breaking point was reached and the
decision to close JWR. Those who did these things know it themselves well and I
beg you to behave well on JWD.
The way in which it was shut down, I certainly in hindsight do
not agree with, and am still hoping that Rifter will be able and willing to
bring it online for a given period (e.g. one week) to allow everyone to
download his/her personal posts and desired threads. From what I gather the
reason for this manner of closure was as we felt that people were becoming too unnecessarily
dependent on the forum and that one collective had been replaced by another. By
sudden closure we were hoping that some would decide to let the past go and
move on – and perhaps some will. I can tell you that even though I knew a few
days in advance, I declined to download my research and material – close to 10K
posts – as this would still somehow keep me attached – while I want a clean
start. Viewing from my personal standpoint, perhaps I too soon agreed with the
manner of closure. My sincere apology here for. I still am thankful to Rifter
for the many years he lead JWR – and let me state for the record, that although
he accepted some donations in the beginning, the last years with his own personally
circumstances allowing, he no longer accepted donations and footed the costs of
running JWR himself.
To Quote Elizabeth Smart: “Be happy...live your life...move
forward and do all of the things that you want to do. Because by feeling sorry
for yourself and holding onto the past and reliving it over and over and over
again, that’s only allowing them to steal more of your life away from you and
they don’t deserve that. They don’t deserve another single second more of your
life. So you be happy and you move forward”
Closing with this quote to encourage you to move on whenever
you feel you are ready for it and not to stay too long in a victim role. You
are no longer victims of this cult, but the lucky ones to have made it out. Do
your reading and research, decide what goals you have in your life and aim to
achieve these.
Take care and be well – signing off, DS